Give Face

it is normal for couples to quarrel isn't it? yes, she maybe right to let the incident lay low and vanish. at the same time, she had to 'give him face'. from fatty's point of view, i believe he will agree so. conversely, i don't. not that i don't see the whole picture, but why? why can't it be like any normal quarrel? it is only when there are downs, then there will be ups. in addition, it is far off from her tolerance. so, it means when some thing like that happen again, it will always end off the same way, and then it gets accumulated? good for who?

give him face by taking photos with strangers and had to smile when it is time to smile are not really that case. it is more about how people will look at her. imagine she walked off angrily, people there will say why that guy's gf like that one.. got attitude problem is it.. they will not link back to that guy because they are not spouses. hence, it has nothing got to do with whether she gave him face or not. unless got another bored soul there trying to figure out what had happened.

the best way to get out of it is to say you're tired. seriously, it works effectively. nobody will still ask you to stay back if you ever told them this reason. also, it works any how. i was telling this friend, yesterday, that i have no obligations to go and entertain his friends. i really meant it. he thinks otherwise and asked if i'm in bad mood. i said, actually i was tired. then he said i better rest at home. see, i'm pulling a dagger in front of him and told him it is actually a lollipop which he accepted.

the next second best and convincing excuse ever is: i'm not feeling well. it works equally well. =)



















yea, i'm angry now also. i do not need that insult/comment. he can keep it to himself. he incurred my wrath. sorry, i don't give him face. i give him face, who give me face? that son of.... whatever, i don't want insult my grandparents. that don't know whose son. that humji and useless person.





i don't believe in blood ties. biologically, it is only used for saving lifes. techinically speaking, we all have blood ties because we all have blood in ourselves.