Firstly, Happy 21st Birthday to HUI CHAN! =DD thanks to her, we all had nice chocolate cake for dessert and made us so bloated. haha.

This post is specially dedicated to my faithful reader - always-on-stand-by-mode-min-si. I was quite surprised that she told me that I haven't update for a long time. hm. i think if my handphone has data pack, i guess i would have updated more often because i'm outside most of the time for the past few months.

High five to her that we both don't like to report our schedule to our partners. frankly speaking, it is impractical and impossible lor. we don't even tell our mum what we will be doing for the day, why and how will we want / rmb to tell them.. hais. insecured guys. guys are more insecured nowadays.

in my memory, elaine hasn't update her blog for very long already. but now it seems like the reverse is true. ok, it is good. i have one more thing to entertain me. =) i'll be very keen to read it.


yesterday somebody pangseh me lor. although he never promised explicitly, we did have plan initially. tsk, i'm still dwelling on this thing. =.= i bought something for him lor. in the end, he never come because he went to drinking with his friends. at about 10pm, he ask me to go.. i was quite tired and very lazy to go out at that time.. later go home still need to take so long.. still need to socialise with new faces. hence, i didn't went.

come to think of it, we didn't spend a lot of time together.. probably only thurs and fri evening. all we do is only dinner and movie. he called it quality time spent. i think still ok lor. is just movies and dinners. i wouldn't be surprise IF we broke up one day because i felt we spend too little time together. to me, seems like elaine and minsi also don't spend too much time with their boys also. worse still they only met during project or CCA meetings. i see the danger lurking around them too though their relationships just started.


after bryan's birthday which is few days ago, i feel "enlightened" about something. i realized that being self-centered and selfish are two different thing. my gf is self-centered. she doesn't care about almost everything. she will only do things for herself. She always start with "I" (her). But, it doesn't necessary mean that she will not do things for other people. whereas i'm different. i'm selfish. i will always think "why must i compromised? why must i lend my bro my dslr?" there is a fine line between self-centered and selfish. in some of the situation, a person may be self-centered and selfish at the same time. for example, I die die want to watch this movie. If you don't want to watch, i can watch myself or with somebody. (self-centered) I will not watch those movie that i'm not interested even if you are. (selfish)


anyway, i just came across evelyn's fb. her bf is so cute! i think evelyn is a very sweet and unique her. is that guy's fu qi. haha. her sister's bf is cute too.. i think is coincidence that both their photo is in black and white. haha.